Brian O'Connell

Closing meeting · 24 September 2026

Brian O'Connell

Sam · Tony · Mr Reyes · Dr Okonkwo · Ajarn Pensri · Dana

  1. Sam · chairing

    We are here to close Brian's plan. Brian died in August, in a motorcycle accident. He was twenty. His plan closes because it did what it set out to do. As we always have, we begin with his words.

  2. Brian · in his own hand

    A lined page in Brian's handwriting, nine lines and two smiling faces: "How to calm your mind · How to train your mind · How to have an extraodinary mind · How to meditate · How to be calm all the time · How to mak a Dent in the universe · How to defy convention and become truly limitless · The true meaning of god · How to break free a rule that hold you back." Written one day while he was being homeschooled.
    • How to calm your mind
    • How to train your mind
    • How to have an extraodinary mind
    • How to meditate
    • How to be calm all the time
    • How to mak a Dent in the universe
    • How to defy convention and become truly limitless
    • The true meaning of god
    • How to break free a rule that hold you back
  3. Tony · Dad

    After his operation he stayed in the house for a while, and I was worried about him. He asked for a skateboard for his birthday. He said he needed new runners and clothes, and I said I would buy them if he used it. He went out, and he made great friends. To my delight, and his.

  4. School notice: 100 out of 100 in English, O-NET national examination, Prathom 6, academic year 2561 (2018/19).

    Mr Reyes · SENCo who held the plan through school

    In the year of his operation he scored full marks in English. Both of those were Brian, in the same year.

  5. Brian, much younger than eleven, standing against a door in a below-knee cast on the right leg. Tony's account puts this at the first operation, when the tumour was found and removed.

    Dr Okonkwo · GP

    His leg was mended with a plate and screws when he was eleven. It carried him back outside.

  6. Ajarn Pensri · Personal tutor, BA Economics

    He chose his own road to economics: a year teaching himself, the GED, Payap, then Chiang Mai University.

  7. Dana · Brookmere SEN caseworker

    The outcomes in his plan were met. The council ceases the plan under section 45, because it worked. Every page of his record goes to his family.

  8. Sam

    Thank you, Brian. The plan is closed.

  9. Minutes

    • His words, first
    • Outcomes met: higher education, independent living, health
    • His record, every section, handed to his family
    • Plan ceased under section 45, because it worked

    Plan closed

Brian O'Connell's case → His story →